Dear Gabriella: Anonymous Relationship Advice The relationship questions you’re thinking about, but may not know who to ask.

What’s happening in your relationship that you haven’t shared through anonymous submissions yet? 

Maybe you love them, but something feels off. Perhaps there’s been an affair, a hidden secret, or a message that haunts your thoughts. Maybe you’re lying next to someone you barely converse with anymore. Or maybe you've got the ick and are uncertain about what it could mean for you. Everyone might be telling you to leave — but deep down, you’re not quite sure you want to. 

Dear Gabriella is the anonymous relationship advice segment from Before It Breaks, where we delve into the messy, complicated, and very human aspects of love that don’t fit into simple categories of “stay” or “go.” 

Send in your relationship dilemma, secret, question, or situation anonymously. Gabriella Pomare will unpack selected submissions on the Before It Breaks podcast, exploring the patterns beneath what’s happening, the conversations you might be avoiding, the red flags that deserve attention — and the issues that may still be worth fighting for. 

From marriage problems and emotional distance to resentment, infidelity, dating, sex, attraction, motherhood, break-ups, co-parenting, and everything happening before a relationship breaks, there’s nothing too small, awkward, or complicated to submit. 

You don’t need to know what you want just yet. 

Just share what’s really going on.